About Hal
Relationship coach, couples counsellor, and communication specialist.
Nearly 40 years supporting couples in Wellington and online, with practical strategies that restore trust, clarity, and emotional safety.
Book Your First SessionProfessional Background
Decades of practical work with couples, families, and conflict dynamics.
For almost 40 years, I have dedicated my professional life to relationship counselling and coaching. Across those decades as a counsellor, therapist, educator, facilitator, mediator, trainer, and clinical supervisor, I have helped thousands of couples improve communication, reduce conflict, and rebuild trust.
My work has spanned couples counselling, parent-child relationships, prevention of family violence, and family and workplace dynamics. That breadth gives me a clear view of what helps relationships work, what gets in the way, and how to create change that lasts.
Core Philosophy
"Change the way you interact with others, and they will change the way they interact with you."
This principle guides every session: helping couples build emotional mastery, communication tools, and practical habits that create stronger, more respectful partnerships.
How I Work
Clear structure, practical tools, compassionate challenge.
In Session
- Communication skills coaching
- Conflict de-escalation techniques
- Emotionally attuned guidance
Between Sessions
- Practical scripts and exercises
- Trust-repair practices
- Immediate next-step actions
Whether you are based in Wellington or meeting online, you will receive grounded support and practical tools designed for meaningful, lasting change.