Testimonials
What couples and clients say after doing the work.
Real feedback from people who wanted a different way of communicating, and found one.
Would like to say thanks for helping me out. I'm able to have my boy from Fridays after work thru Sundays at four. We agreed to a lot. So, thank you for counselling me thru it all. Well appreciated.
Greg Perry
Things are going really well with us and many of the communication tools you taught us are second nature now. So, a huge thanks to you Hal. I really do not think we would be at this place in our lives and so excited about the future without you. So glad that we decided counselling was worth a shot.
Jenny and David
Hal, remember to text your bank account number, and thank you for yesterday, we both thought you were great and very skilled.
Lala Rolls
Hi Hal. The chat with Eamon and Josh went really well, no tears. Josh is doing really well. I can talk about everything so much better now. Thanks so much.
Lyall Jellyman
Thank you so much Hal. I really appreciate how far we have been able to come. The way you stepped into this seemingly stuck, volatile situation was mind blowing to me. This process exceeded my expectations on every measure. I cannot believe how gently and easily you were able to de-escalate our situation and get us moving in a different direction. I appreciate your help more than I can describe.
Erica Lansford
Featured Story: Sam and Izzy
Twelve years later, the same tools are still holding their relationship together.
A clear before-and-after timeline from one couple who worked the process and kept using it.
Message from 2012
Hi Hal, it's Sam Silby here. My partner Izzy and I had a series of sessions with you at the beginning of the year. We wanted to let you know we use our strategies daily and love them. We booked flights to move overseas. Izzy asked me to marry him last Thursday. We have come a very, very long way since we met you. Many thanks, Hal.
Message from 2024
We are still married and think of you often. We are both educators in Thailand, for 11 years now. Many thanks for these many lovely years together.
Love, Sam and Izzy
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